When Pain Strikes Suddenly — What the Body Is Trying to Say
- Dana B. Fernandes

- Mar 16, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 20
Sudden pain can be terrifying.
One moment, you are fine, and the next, your body locks, grips, or collapses into pain.
The mind immediately searches for answers: What did I do wrong? Is something damaged? Do I need to fix this quickly?
But what if pain, even when it appears suddenly, is not random?
What if it is a signal — precise, intelligent, and meaningful?
Client’s words
“My journey with Dana started with an emergency.
I had a pinched nerve, and Dana — whom I met years ago — felt called to support me.
It was an experiment for both of us. I was in pain during a vacation in Thailand, desperate. Dana was in Norway and didn’t know if guiding someone remotely, without touch, could work.
She guided me through voice messages, and I held on to them like a life raft.
24 hours after we started, I could be without painkillers.
Less than 48 hours later, I was so much better.”
Word from Dana
This experience was profound and completely new for me.
For almost a decade, I had been working in person with chronic pain and symptoms. I had never worked like this online.
I remember scrolling on Facebook and seeing L.’s post.
We had met years before during my travels, and something in me immediately responded. I reached out to see how I could support her with the knowledge and experience I had.
The result was far beyond what I could have imagined.
It took me a year to share this story. And in many ways, it marked the beginning of a deeper understanding of healing, and the birth of a new way I now work.
I began sending L. voice messages, simple guidance, small directions, and small pieces of orientation.
We went back and forth, learning as we moved: what supports, how much is needed, when to continue, and when to pause.
The communication itself became part of the process.
The next morning, something had already shifted.
It was a different reality for her.
The intensity had reduced. There was more space. More possibilities.
Why was this so profound for me
When people come to my clinic, there is often, even if unspoken, a hope that I will fix the problem. That I will take the pain away.
Even though I communicate clearly that this is not how I work, that expectation is often still there. Because when pain is severe, helplessness comes with it.And with it, the wish for it to disappear.
With L., this dynamic was different.
I couldn’t touch her. I couldn’t intervene directly.
Everything moved through words.
She had to feel, interpret, and respond from within herself.
She had to meet her body actively.
And something important happened there.
It became empowering.
She didn’t just move out of pain —she gained tools and an experience she could return to again and again.
What this showed me
Acute pain is often treated as something to eliminate as quickly as possible.
And sometimes medical support is absolutely necessary.
But in many cases, pain is not random.
It is a threshold moment —where the system can no longer compensate, suppress, or carry what has been building underneath.
The pain is not the enemy. It is the body calling attention — asking to be met in a different way.
This experience reminded me of something essential:
Healing does not come from outside.
It happens in the meeting between awareness, willingness, and the body’s own intelligence.
It requires participation.
Openness.
And sometimes, the courage to stay with what we feel —and move with it in a new way.
A note on working remotely
This work happened entirely through voice messages and written communication.
Even without touch, the body can be guided to reorganise —when there is attention, presence, and the right orientation.





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